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Real stories from real people whose lives have been transformed through our counseling services. Their words inspire us to continue our mission of healing.

★★★★★ 5.0 Google Reviews
“Richard, I just wanted you to know how much I appreciate your understanding and TLC when I needed it most. It’s a comfort to know you are still there and that all I have to do is call.”

Fly Again

A tired bird with broken wing,
Shot down by life, unable to sing.
Fallen from sky, wounded in spirit
Alone, afraid, unable to bear it.

What will happen to me? I cried.
How will I live? Will I even survive?
My life-song lies silent and nearly dead.
Why try to go on? I almost said.

Tender hands touched me. Yes, someone cared.
In time wing healed and bone repaired.
But soul and heart show scars of pain
Afraid to risk, will I fly again?

Then one day warm, in early Spring
A breeze came up and caught my wing.
My friend shouted fly, fly you must
Spread both wings, in yourself trust
Let in the warmth of truth and light
Soar with eagles, know your might.

As I discovered peace once more
It stirred the music at my core.
My song burst forth in joyous shout –
I LIKE ME!! (That’s what it’s all about.)

, Carole H.
“You saved our marriage.”
, D.C.
“Today my husband and I are celebrating our 33rd Anniversary. We sat in your office 31 years ago at a loss, we had lost all focus on our goal, how to communicate, finding value of the world we create and being an awesome partner. Thank you for your help.”
, B & F
“Thank you for being there when it counted the most! After all, everything is working out and the future will indeed be better.”
, F.C.
“I can’t begin to thank you for all you’ve helped me with… Your incredible expertise, undivided attention, support, patience, and professionalism are quite extraordinary.”
, Diane M.
“I wish to express my sincere and heartfelt appreciation to you. How do I begin to thank you for the devotion, patience, expertise, advice, encouragement, support, and kindness you gave me. You have truly been outstanding, unique and very special.”
, D
“Self-care for me is chatting with my therapist. She is great, I LOVE her!!”
, Michelle H.
“Today we are celebrating our 33rd wedding anniversary. It happened because we spent time with Richard learning the tools to make our relationship outstanding. Nothing comes without hard work, and guidance.”
, Francine L.
“Great experience working with Richard. I felt heard, respected, and supported in a way that made it easier to open up and do some real work. Richard is thoughtful, attentive, and highly skilled, with a calm presence that creates a safe and welcoming space. I gained practical tools, deeper insight, and a stronger sense of clarity and confidence over time. Highly recommend this counselor to those looking for professional, compassionate counseling, and meaningful personal growth.”
, Google Review
“I have been here for a while. So far, so good. The counselor has helped me through many circumstances in my life that have been aggravated by COVID. Excellent professional counselors. I have recommended these offices many times to other people, though they go to another office than I go to.”
, Brian R.
“Thank you for your call the other day. We are having the time of our lives with H, enjoying every precious moment despite the sleep deprivation. We see H as a testimony of our hard work through your guidance and for that we thank you. It’s just amazing to compare where we were when we first sat down with you for our first session to where we are now. We are truly thankful and overjoyed.”
, H, G, and H
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