Search for Self provides comprehensive therapy delivered by an experienced team who take the time to know you, combining the depth of a group practice with the warmth of a boutique, family-owned practice. We offer personalized psychotherapy for individuals, couples, children, and families across multiple office locations and virtual sessions.

If your mind won't stop racing, if you're constantly on edge, or if worry has taken over your daily life, you're not alone. Anxiety can show up in so many ways, and it can be exhausting.
You might experience panic attacks, irritability, trouble sleeping, or find yourself avoiding social situations. Maybe you notice physical symptoms like headaches, chest tightness, stomach issues, or muscle tension. Perhaps you procrastinate or ruminate on the same thoughts over and over. These are all signs that your nervous system is working overtime, and you deserve support to find relief.
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When communication breaks down, resentment builds, and you feel more like roommates than partners, or when family tension makes home feel stressful, we can help.
Healthy relationships require ongoing effort, and sometimes we all need guidance. Whether you're experiencing recurring fights, a lack of connection or intimacy, feeling disrespected or misunderstood, or struggling with trust issues, therapy can help. We also work with families navigating parenting disagreements, unresolved conflicts, and unmet needs. Healing happens when everyone feels heard.
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When sadness lingers, when you've lost interest in things you once loved, or when even small tasks feel like climbing a mountain, it's okay to ask for help.
Depression isn't a sign of weakness. It's a real condition that affects how you feel, think, and handle daily activities. You might feel empty, worthless, or stuck. Sleep and appetite changes are common. Concentration becomes difficult. You may find yourself withdrawing from family and friends, feeling isolated even when surrounded by people. There is a path forward, and you don't have to walk it alone.
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Watching your child struggle with emotions, behavior, or school can be heartbreaking. We provide compassionate support for young people and their families.
Children and teens often can't put their struggles into words, they show us through behavior. You might notice anxiety, excessive fear, persistent sadness, or loss of interest. School refusal, social withdrawal, disruptive behavior, frequent tantrums, or difficulty focusing are common signs. A sudden decline in grades, sleep and appetite changes, or increased family conflict can all signal that your child needs support. We're here to help the whole family.
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Major life changes, even positive ones, can leave you feeling lost, overwhelmed, or unsure of who you are anymore. We help you navigate what comes next.
Life transitions come in many forms: relationship endings or divorce, new parenthood, blending families, moving to a new town, losing a loved one, becoming a caregiver, job loss or career changes, retirement, or children leaving home. These changes can bring sadness, irritability, hopelessness, self-doubt, racing thoughts, fatigue, and a sense of being overwhelmed. You don't have to figure it out alone.
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High achievers, professionals, caregivers, and parents, you pour so much into your work and the people you love. If you're running on empty, you're not alone.
Burnout doesn't mean you're failing, it means you've been giving more than you have. Whether you're a driven professional, a devoted caregiver, or a parent juggling it all, exhaustion can creep in when demands consistently exceed your capacity. You might feel emotionally depleted, detached, irritable, or like nothing you do is ever enough. Therapy isn't a luxury, it's a smart investment in your health and performance. Recovery starts with recognizing that even the strongest among us need support, rest, and boundaries.
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Trauma changes how we experience the world. If you're dealing with hypervigilance, flashbacks, or emotional numbness, healing is possible, at your own pace.
The effects of trauma can show up in unexpected ways: intrusive memories and flashbacks, avoiding certain people, places, or thoughts, nervous system dysregulation, feelings of numbness or guilt, sleep and concentration difficulties, or self-destructive behaviors. Whether your trauma is recent or from long ago, our therapists provide a safe, gentle space for processing and healing. You deserve to feel safe in your own life again.
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Addiction impacts not just the individual, but everyone who loves them. We offer compassionate support for recovery and healing for the whole family.
Whether you're struggling with alcohol or drug misuse, working on relapse prevention, or supporting a family member through recovery, we're here to help. Addiction often comes with shame cycles that keep people stuck. We help families with boundary setting, communication, and rebuilding trust. Recovery is possible, and no one has to do it alone.
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What we eat profoundly affects how we feel. Our nutrition counseling helps you build a healthier relationship with food to support your mental and physical wellbeing.
The connection between nutrition and mental health is powerful. Whether you're struggling with emotional eating, restrictive patterns, or simply want to understand how food impacts your mood and energy, we can help. Our approach is gentle, non-judgmental, and focused on sustainable changes that nourish both body and mind. We work with you to develop a personalized plan that fits your lifestyle and supports your overall wellness journey.
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Loss touches every part of life. Whether you've lost a loved one recently or are still carrying grief from long ago, we honor your journey through mourning.
Grief is deeply personal and there's no right way to experience it. You might feel waves of sadness, numbness, anger, or confusion. Concentration and memory can suffer. Sleep may be elusive, or all you want to do. You might withdraw from others, feel restless, or struggle to find purpose. Intrusive thoughts about your loss are common. Whatever you're feeling, it's valid. We're here to walk alongside you with compassion and care.
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Beyond the focus areas above, our therapists work with a wide range of concerns. Explore a few below, or reach out to ask about your specific needs.
Getting started is simple, just a friendly conversation. Our Intake Specialist is here to guide you through every step, making the process comfortable and stress-free. Reach out today and let us help you take that first step toward feeling better.
Professional and compassionate full-service counseling serving Northern New Jersey and New York City for over 40 years.
We work with all major insurance plans as an out-of-network provider. We handle all reimbursement paperwork for you.















